Phases

So Mykaela is going through a phase where my little social butterfly does not want to participate in activities we have her signed up for. I don't want her to get into the mindset that she can make the decision if she wants to participate or not since most of these activities are things we have paid for but I also don't want to force her because these things are suppose to be fun. I am just hoping this ends soon. She always says she wants to go to swimming or to dance but when we get there she changes her mind. I also think if she could be in the same class as Mallory we wouldn't be going through this, but with a 2 year age gap they are always seperated. She always says she doesn't want to go to school but that is the one thing I have made her do and when I pick her up she had fun. I think she is just testing us to see what she can get away with.